MGTOW Survival Guide: Six Reasons to Never Date Single Mothers

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When I dropped her off at her moms house, I see 2 kids at the door, I said who's are they?? Anonymous the bast majority 95% of single never married mothers got pregnant because they showed at the very least lack of good judgement, they got shit-faced drunk and slept with some dead-beat dole bludger bozo whose a few days out from being sentenced to prison for stealing cars and liquor. The Law has given a new twist to the perpetual battle of the sexes. And then the other bad behavior started to - when I finally asked him to leave his now wife helped him move out of our home.

Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage. Some stay at home mothers are the most loving people you will meet, and when you loved somebody, you will love and accept everything that's part of hers, this includes her children. We are going super slow, and making sure all our decisions for the future are most beneficial for the kids well being.

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Of course this guide does not apply to all women or all men but it will list the main problems I have observed through over the years. Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc… versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member usually their mom , a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner. One of the first strategies is to engage men who do not have children of their own. This allows the woman to portray the semblance of having and raising a kid is easy and there will always be a balance between their relationship with their partner and their child. Sometimes they will portray themselves as helpless victims, victimized by an evil and absent father — they need saving and you can save them. There are quite a few more, but like I said, this is a rough guide. This allows a lot of leverage on several levels as time goes by. This hopefully facilitates a sense of belonging together and in the end marriage. Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc… it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship. What is really going on is a shit-load of help from the single moms friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc… No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on — do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it. One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated hat single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc…they seem to be ideal mates. What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. The kind compassionate woman the men met had some how now been replaced by a truly different woman, it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually his occurs just after marriage. I have noticed after marriage a single mom works at dizzying speed to make sure her mans name is on all of the bills. The Family you just got into is by invitation only. In most traditional marriages that produce children, the man, woman and child or children make up he basic family unit. In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. You are invited in and can be un-invited whenever mom feels it to be so. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third. No matter what you think… her ex is going to be there forever. The reality is he was always there, your partner just never mentioned it…. The father will most naturally want to have a relationship with his child and he is going to be quite involved most of the time. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him…its only natural remember… also be sure to take into account the grandparents, uncles and aunts and all the family functions you will be attending with him, his child, his ex your partner and his side of the family. Get used to being uncomfortable. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all…which results in the kid hating you. An amazing amount of men involved with single mothers report how the child hates them, but he can keep buying gifts to try to win their affection. Some call it the ATM effect of diminishing returns. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc… Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. If a single man is wondering what happens ask any father of children how their time is spent, it will not be on hobbies. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive- expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such… well, there will be little left. As a footnote there is also another ploy by some single moms that men also forget about. Double billing, also called fraud, is quite common but it does allow the single mom to have almost zero expenses for her child as two men are now paying for junior…. Another ploy that is quite horrific was a man whose wife owned a home and he moved in with her and her child. Although he fixed it up, paid half the mortgage and expenses- she had willed the home to her children. When confronted she said since she would be dead she did not care if he had a home or not, her child came first. So be careful with matters of money. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child and such I keep hearing this one story over and over. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the step parent thinks he might be lauded for his sacrifices but instead is shunted to a back seat or not invited as the child invites mom and dad to the party…and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgement of effort. Be prepared to help out all her buddies as they helped her out. Endless weekends and nights of babysitting the other single moms kids so that they too may date and get a man. You will also discover why 75% of all people in jail come from single mother households. Try not to have any expensive items around… 9. Now that the single mom is now married she will need to impress her single mom friends with her new found happiness. Her happiness will usually include a new home in a good neighbourhood, new clothing, new items for the home, new car etc… there is an unwritten law it seems among a lot of single moms that they compete ruthlessly with their friends. If she does get married she needs to show them her new found prestige. Be prepared for huge new expenses. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills…and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. Then years later they found out that junior is going to go to university for 6 years after taking a gap year off and not worry about a job as he will live at home. After that the story usually is that the child gets married and has kids and needs a ton of babysitting services. The dream of trips abroad, moving to a nicer place etc… evaporates for most men. They just wind up being early grandparents. The other option that happens a lot is the girls have children early and stay at home. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren…etc… As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice. The legalities can kill you. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18…. Couple that with some alimony and you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own…. In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. It can be in many ways, the death of a man. Especially on what happens after you marry. As you mentioned, single moms don't have time for slow courtships. Or for many courtships. The support network you mentioned is designed to keep the brat out of the way for a breif period only. Give him sex early first or second date , and often every subsequent date. Anonymous I once considered dating a single mom. Erica was her name. But every time she had her little Sireena with her, the little womb turd went out of her way to utterly ruin and destroy whatever conversation her mom and I got going. The moment the vibes started getting intense, the moment we started clicking, the little shit started causing trouble with her constant fuckery. Erica would always be forced to stop our dialogue to put Sireena in her place, which would work for a few minutes. But the very instant we re-entered The Zone anyone who's ever been in love would know what I'm talking about , Sireena started acting up once more, upon which Erica would cut our dialogue short and start the whole cycle all over again. Meanwhile, I had no choice but to endure the endless barrage of Sireena's bullshit because I was just a man. I had absolutely NO authority except to plead with Sireena to please stop acting up. After the fifth time Sireena played this game, I came to my fucking senses and shunned Erica's company thereafter. I knew at this point I would NEVER have her to myself because Sireena would always come before me. Whatever doubts I had about dodging the bullets have been officially dispelled. And no, the names have NOT been changed to protect the not-so-innocent. I don't care of the Erica OR her little brat see my comment, in fact, I fucking hope they do. That mainly works for men under age 35 and especially under 30 - when he's still hot with libido. Noticably lower at 30, to the point of being somewhat resistable. At 35, even more so. Well, look forward to this, young men. Whatever losses you had in your sex life will be more than compensated by a LACK of nagging, time demands at home, screaming children, having to answer to a wife, squabbles about what to eat or watch or when or how to decorate your house. So cheer up and concentrate on enjoying your freedom. Life's much simpler and relaxed that way. Anonymous This is a great guide to dating single moms. Along with RuddyTurnStone's comment, it's 100% correct. Don't buy in men, it's a dog and pony show designed to sell you used beef at an outrageous price. That's not a classic Corvette you are buying, it's a fifteen year old Toyota Corolla. And you'll be paying for it... Only under a few circumstances is remarriage with children emotionally beneficial to all involved. A few years ago my friend was commissioned by the Catholic Church to write a workbook for a seminar they wanted to do call Blended Families. This was in response to the fact that The Brady Bunch is not real life. But one benefit for a man dating a woman with a child could be that he gets to observe the child and consequently know the mother real quick. I made the mistake with a woman who had two cute girls. She played me like a fish, just as you describe. And I, being a typical nice guy beta, fell for it like a bait of herring. Then, as soon as the child is born, they divorce you. Now they get childsupport from TWO men, or more. It pretty much destroyed me, I lost everything, including a 43 foot sailboat I owned before the marriage this in Washington State, where females rule and had to live in my car for two years, swamped with child support, alimony and attorney fees. A brutal learning curve, guys, so pay attention to this article!! She thought I was a beta and wanted to play me. Meanwhile, there were obvious signs she was still hanging with other guys. I didn't know the true nature of women at the time was only 24 but my instincts warned me off. I caught her flirting with other guys at a bar and dumped her ass. Now looking back, it was obvious that she was trying to lure me into a bs marriage to get child support. Fortunately, there were a lot of tells so even a young naive guy could tell what was going on. The only moms I'll nail are those who have grown children who are out of the house. They are at least 45 years old and have a monster sex drive. Of course, finding a 45 year old woman who is attractive is quite a challenge. They're more likely to accept the speech about not wanting to marry - a lot are just happy to be with a younger guy. It's the 18-35 year olds that you have to watch like a hawk. They barely have any job skills and so even if they did have time to work they would still be getting the big boss his coffee and making minimum wage. Their lives are miserable. Don't be the ladder they use to get out! I just wrapped up dating a single Mom for about 9 months who has a 6 year old daughter. Everything was going along smooth until one day recently she wanted me pickup HER daughter at school in the middle of my work day. Her finances are a mess she had filed bankruptcy once already and still swimming in credit card , auto, and school loan debt. Sad we broke up but seems like a suicide mission to continue it. She is back out on the dating websites looking for that magical guy to take care of her and her child. Hope she finds someone like but it is not me. Anonymous You have written a blog about being in a marriage with kids whether biological or not. The same exact complaints you make about a single mom you have just married are the same exact complaints men have in a marriage with kids period. Ya its not always fun. Thats why divorce is so high. The man and woman cant seem to get along anymore and they divorce. If all these men are so great then why arent they demanding custody of their children upon divorce? When a single mom gives birth to your child.... Why isnt that happening? If a man does happen to want their children and do get custody its like want to be treated like gods. The woman has to bow down to the man and the kid who isnt the womans kid. Oh wait a second... Most woman i know run for the hills when they meet a single dad. They dont want to be mommy to a kid who isnt theirs. Same exact situation with the single mom. Its not a sexist thing. Woman are not bad because they give birth. Men are not bad because they fathered a child. Just think of all the barren womb and blank sperm women and men in this world. Those people are not supposed to carry their gene pool on. Dont hate on people because their bodies work how they are supposed to. Society hates single parents period, whether its a man or a woman.

Sometimes they will portray themselves as helpless victims, victimized by an evil and absent father — they need saving and you can save them. You are no longer lovers, a couple, the honeymoon is over, you are parents now. They assume that all single ladies have the possibility of being hot while single moms do not. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner. Slowly but surly women are admitting that children are the burden. They coulda used dating single moms mgtow condom, birth control, next day pill or even abortion but NO!!. Anonymous I feel so bad for that poor guy and I hope he recovers from this disaster. My stepdaughter was always forced to respond and be very respectful to very rich people but not show me any respect. As you mentioned, single moms don't have time for slow courtships. Leave me alone — those words, within that a man is finding his own validation. Dealing with a single mother is like playing another man's saved game. History shows she now has 4 kids to 3 different fathers.